Find the doctor whose views coincide with yours.

If you feel the need to change the beliefs doctor to change your own doctor. You need to correctly construct the first talk with your doctor. Think over the list of questions. This will guarantee that you will learn everything you need and save time with a specialist.

Try to find out his opinion about your concerns. Do this very gently, without determining its position. Remember, the ideal option does not exist, it is necessary to determine the principal moments (for example, sees a doctor involved in the delivery partner, which prefers the kinds of pain, apply a baby to the breast after birth, etc.).

You should not categorically say: "I am against the pain." Ask, "How much of your maternal coping with the pain?" or "What do you do that and offer new mothers, if labor stops?". Be sure to ask your doctor to tell you about all the possible negative effects of epidural anesthesia, if the doctor suggests this possibility (there are not enough, and if he responds: "What are you, it is perfectly safe "- this is not true).

It is important that you feel confidence to the doctor. Someone wants to give himself into the hands of the authoritarian expert, and someone wants to find a partner who understands his face.

Make sure the doctor takes a reasonable balance between the natural and medical methods of delivery. The main purpose of your questioning - to find out how flexible the doctor in decision making.